http://lajollaunitedmethodist.org/parenting-tips/ Tue, 10 Apr 2012 03:16:39 GMT en-us Copyright 2012 La Jolla United Methodist Church http://lajollaunitedmethodist.org/parenting-tips/a-peacemaker-or-a-troublemaker/ http://lajollaunitedmethodist.org/parenting-tips/a-peacemaker-or-a-troublemaker/ Mon, 02 Apr 2012 03:16:39 GMT A good way to help children overcome the problem of anger is to teach them how to be peacemakers in-stead of troublemakers. Anyone can get angry and most people do. Few are mature enough to be peace-makers. Being a peacemaker helps to break ... http://lajollaunitedmethodist.org/parenting-tips/the-conscience-and-the-holy-spirit/ http://lajollaunitedmethodist.org/parenting-tips/the-conscience-and-the-holy-spirit/ Thu, 01 Mar 2012 08:00:01 GMT The heart contains a number of internal prompters but some of them lead children in the wrong direction. For example, the heart contains emotions, but sometimes those emotions prompt children to act inappropriately. The heart contains desires ... http://lajollaunitedmethodist.org/parenting-tips/connecting-with-your-childs-heart/ http://lajollaunitedmethodist.org/parenting-tips/connecting-with-your-childs-heart/ Wed, 01 Feb 2012 08:00:01 GMT Many parents use a simple behavior modification approach to raise their children. “If you get your homework done, then you can go out and play.” “If you clean your room, then you can watch a video.” Unfortunately ... http://lajollaunitedmethodist.org/parenting-tips/developing-closeness/ http://lajollaunitedmethodist.org/parenting-tips/developing-closeness/ Sun, 01 Jan 2012 08:00:01 GMT Parents must maintain a balance as they work with their kids. Firmness, confrontation, and correction in a child’s life are tools that God uses to address heart issues. You won’t get very far, however, by simply telling your children ... http://lajollaunitedmethodist.org/parenting-tips/christmas-a-time-to-teach-generosity/ http://lajollaunitedmethodist.org/parenting-tips/christmas-a-time-to-teach-generosity/ Thu, 01 Dec 2011 08:31:32 GMT Christmas is a highlight in the life of most children, but much of the benefit is focused on what they get. Of course one of the blessings of Christmas is giving, so look for ways to teach children generosity this year. Here are some ... http://lajollaunitedmethodist.org/parenting-tips/teaching-kids-to-accept-a-no-answer/ http://lajollaunitedmethodist.org/parenting-tips/teaching-kids-to-accept-a-no-answer/ Sun, 02 Oct 2011 06:01:42 GMT Teaching children to accept a "no" answer is important. Knowing how to help children in this area can be a challenge. The following two examples illustrate different ways to help children change, based on their own uniqueness and ... http://lajollaunitedmethodist.org/parenting-tips/to-reward-or-not-to-reward/ http://lajollaunitedmethodist.org/parenting-tips/to-reward-or-not-to-reward/ Fri, 02 Sep 2011 08:36:29 GMT We’re often asked the question, "Should I reward my child for a good behavior or should I just expect it to be done?" Sometimes parents are hesitant to give rewards. They feel that rewards teach children to obey for the wrong reasons. A ... http://lajollaunitedmethodist.org/parenting-tips/help-kids-choose-solutions/ http://lajollaunitedmethodist.org/parenting-tips/help-kids-choose-solutions/ Thu, 02 Jun 2011 04:38:36 GMT When a child runs into a problem, often the most efficient solution at the time is for the parent to solve the problem. But that isn't always what's best for the child. When troubleshooting a problem with your son or daughter you may want to ... http://lajollaunitedmethodist.org/parenting-tips/my-child-is-just-going-through-the-motions/ http://lajollaunitedmethodist.org/parenting-tips/my-child-is-just-going-through-the-motions/ Sun, 01 May 2011 20:22:46 GMT Sometimes children learn to go through the motions to just get through a discipline experience. They'll parrot the answers that they know you want to hear. You know that helping them change their hearts is the right thing to do, but you don't ... http://lajollaunitedmethodist.org/parenting-tips/teach-children-how-to-listen/ http://lajollaunitedmethodist.org/parenting-tips/teach-children-how-to-listen/ Sat, 02 Apr 2011 02:06:46 GMT A very important skill that children will need as adults is the ability to listen. Listening isn't easy. Most people would rather talk. Children interrupt, yell, and talk over each other, often resulting in misunderstanding. Teaching children ...